tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post5474277325863851200..comments2024-01-26T10:20:37.836+00:00Comments on Diary of a Goldfish: The Goldfish Guide to Dealing With Doubters #1The Goldfishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15213378454070776331noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-65794869339895164582009-03-03T19:49:00.000+00:002009-03-03T19:49:00.000+00:00It's so tiring. We *have* a job for the rest of o...It's so tiring. We *have* a job for the rest of our lives...proving we have disabilities.imfunnytoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12942406430628029505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-30164607038336766732009-02-22T21:35:00.000+00:002009-02-22T21:35:00.000+00:00I Recently had a discussion with an Internationall...I Recently had a discussion with an Internationally Learned Sage who pointed out that my being strangely assessed into virtual Social and Employment Oblivion has little to do with me or any health or injury problems I may or may not have.<BR/><BR/> But simply has to do with being put into a situation which suits the Insurance Corporations "future intentions".<BR/><BR/> Seems it is far better for them to have Assessment reports which "cover" any previous actions people paid vast amounts to "Manage" (Farm)a claim may have made.<BR/><BR/> Either intentionally ( to meet future intentions, Key Performance Indicators) or one being "Machi- valium" reports need to hide past intentions or errors.<BR/><BR/> Eventually one finds they have been effectively completely isolated from almost everything and any contact with anybody.<BR/><BR/> Yet the claim continues to roll on with the Corporation not being able to risk any input from one or any experts one deals with independently. <BR/><BR/>Doctors and other experts meanwhile believing that because of your assessed (real or "Corporate needed") problems lots of entitlements, programs and support are in place for you.<BR/><BR/> Therefore they need not get involved and you are more than well looked after by the system.<BR/><BR/> When each 90 day Medical Certificate (Or still alive ticket) is required to be replaced one almost "fears" going to the doctor to get it.<BR/><BR/> One becomes a great "Doubter" of the "No fault" Accident Insurance System, the real effectiveness of any medications, and the safety of living with ones Medical Records being so muddled and altered, possibly even if ones "real" identity even exists. <BR/><BR/> Complaints that it has become too "dangerous" to be a client of the corp are met with "No expert has ever said you may represent any danger to the corporations staff.<BR/><BR/> So one retreats, becomes a great "Doubter" and wonders just how much or if one really has any health or injury problems at all.<BR/><BR/> yet the claim rolls on avoiding any input from you or your caregiver at all.<BR/><BR/> "Doubting those who would impress" you with their learning and power.<BR/><BR/> "Self Confidence" in one's potential and of course Humour seem to be "Key Performance factors needed to survive in such a strange situation.<BR/><BR/> One simply has to keep Charging AheadGone Fishinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03601595396241016724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-43465898572934025672009-02-20T14:23:00.000+00:002009-02-20T14:23:00.000+00:00Hey Fishy ~ Thanks for including me in such a tho...Hey Fishy ~<BR/><BR/> Thanks for including me in such a thoughtful post: You're right, that it is not my responsibility to convince a doubter in my life, but it certainly feels that way sometimes. What I'm still searching for - nearly 15 years into this whole mess - is the perfect comeback for an abusive doubter... Some great response for when the a-hole in my life ( I do have one in particular) starts spouting off about me and my 'shortcomings.' I doubt it would matter to him, but I still think it would be a great feeling for me. :DNever That Easyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04008749218695113192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-41677203130418665322009-02-20T02:24:00.000+00:002009-02-20T02:24:00.000+00:00I struggle with how I feel about doubters, mostly ...I struggle with how I feel about doubters, mostly I find them to be liars, so they suspect that of others. Non-doubters I find to be kind, loving people. Great post.Diane J Standifordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11862850657925658079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-75664135723752257332009-02-19T21:37:00.000+00:002009-02-19T21:37:00.000+00:00A great post. I have made progress where my doubte...A great post. I have made progress where my doubters are concerned. It involves a wry, sometimes indulgent, smile (usually to myself). I worried that I may be becoming smug in adopting the mantle of the sage. Then I figured I've earned a few months of smugness. Anyway it's not smugness so much as pity really. Oh dear. That's just as bad. But what can you do?seahorsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04006649663400552591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-7857257565386768652009-02-19T18:47:00.000+00:002009-02-19T18:47:00.000+00:00Thanks--very helpful. I wonder why people do turn ...Thanks--very helpful. I wonder why people do turn such doubt toward people with chronic illnesses/conditions when they don't with other life circumstances. It can be exasperating when we're not asking for someone's validation, merely reporting information.FridaWriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03321658097813377806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-36964471625343979392009-02-18T20:47:00.000+00:002009-02-18T20:47:00.000+00:00its realy good post.its realy good post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-42250822142846614412009-02-18T20:44:00.000+00:002009-02-18T20:44:00.000+00:00good post. i like it.good post. i like it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10557263.post-71477394926296721482009-02-18T18:45:00.000+00:002009-02-18T18:45:00.000+00:00Thank you for this post. It's just what I needed t...Thank you for this post. It's just what I needed today.telakallahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14535154598952955598noreply@blogger.com